 What!? You don't have spare time every day? A free 15 minutes where nothing else needs doing so you can step on the mat and do some yoga?
I'm not sure there is such a thing as spare time. We have the time we have, and we have to decide what is going to fill it. My pattern is that my phone, my kids and my dog have moved in to the gaps that might otherwise have been taken up with other things I used to enjoy: reading, fixing stuff, playing guitar, seeing friends, going for walks. So getting my yoga practice in first thing, or booking my class or workshop ahead of time so I definitely show up, keeps it consistent and regular. I've just booked in for my October retreat weekend so no matter what happens, I've got that time preserved for me. It may feel selfish, but everyone around me benefits too. No-one does well running on overwhelm. While yoga is much more than self-care, it starts here. I'm also really looking forward to this weekend which is the retreat I'm hosting over near Radstock. A chance to completely step aside from the demands of life, into a beautiful tranquil location, trees and birds bursting with life, spacious yoga, and countryside walking - and no cooking, washing up or tv. Bliss. Looking forward to hosting everyone who is joining me and holding some much needed space for you. I rely on my yoga practice. It is a mainstay in a somewhat chaotic world with unpredictable teenagers derailing my days. My body, mind and nervous system know that my safe haven of practice will happen regularly. Which means I can operate from a state of more ease because I'm not leaving it up to chance when I get to my mat and give my body and mind what it needs. We don't get more time, but we do get to make better decisions on what we have chosen to do. Rather than mindlessly drifting towards the phone, which is the easiest, most compelling, least demanding course of action, we can choose to use our time more fruitfully. Find any remotely possible windows of opportunity, and choose to use them wisely. They are precious. Go to bed 20 minutes earlier, so that you can get up 20 minutes earlier and fit in your home practice. Check your messages or phone one less time and use that time instead for a 10 minute mini-practice. Done daily, this will give you over an hour each week of yoga, which is well worth making time for.
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 It's spring at the moment and the weeds are growing, fast. They are called weeds because they grow fast, and spread easily. The garden is a wild and busy place if left to itself.
Spring is a great time to take stock, to decide what we want to keep, what we want to cultivate, and what we want to minimise and have less of. If we don’t decide to pull out anything, before long we have a wonderfully wild but overgrown garden. This if of course a great metaphor for our life, and for our body-mind. We cultivate the good stuff, what we want to encourage and want more of, and discourage the rest. This takes an objective mindset and clarity, and our yoga practice helps us come to this place. We come to our mat and use our moving and breathing practices to quieten our mind, revitalise our energy, and come back to balance. And from here, with clarity, we can observe and notice our usual habits. In our practice habits might show up as postural tendencies, pushing and striving to ‘achieve’ a posture or breath length, judging ourselves harshly, observing breathing patterns, noticing recurring mental thought-loops and patterns, and so on. Then we might go to the weeds and start digging. We react to what we notice and perhaps want to change it. We look for ways to be different from how we have noticed ourselves to be. We catch ourself and try to change the course. But are we over-weeding...? There is a lot of talk about ’self improvement’ and working on things to make them better / more efficient / less problematic. Within this framing it is easy to treat our yoga practice like this. But with it we might lose sight of all that is already whole and right about ourselves. We might tend to the weeds but forget to enjoy the flowers, shrubs and trees. In part our yoga practice is about noticing the whole. Noticing the inherent harmony that is so self-evident and at the very foundation of ourselves, that it is easy to overlook. There is a beauty in every single breath that we take - no matter whether it is shallow or deep, quick or slow. There is a whole body harmony that just works without us having to do anything. We come to our mat and notice our breath, move the body to it, and can rediscover an ease and balance. When I look at my little apple tree and enjoy its blossoms, I don’t look at the gnarly bits, or the imperfections. I enjoy the beauty of the whole tree and find that the imperfections are actually what makes it this particular expression of a tree, and that it doesn’t look exactly like any other tree. Like trees, we can cultivate seeing ourselves as uniquely different from anyone else, yet already perfectly whole and beautiful. When we look at a little baby, rather than look for its imperfections, we take in the whole beautiful miracle of them, and marvel that they are possible at all. Stepping back and enjoying this inherent beauty in yourself and all around you is well worth doing (BUT strangely hard to do - which is why yoga helps us). We don’t take this stance to get better or to improve anything, but to remember that we are already bloody amazing.  Trees are the silent giants all around us, with beautiful trunks, branches, leaves, twiglets, birds perching, wind rustling. The roots are the invisible foundation, the part of the tree that is unseen, and often unconsidered. Even when you trip over a tree root when walking next to a big tree, it feels separate, not like an integral part.
Of course the roots are essential, and often overlooked. Our feet are in a similar position. They are our foundation, our support and yet they are wrapped up and perhaps neglected somewhat. The encumbrances we overlay on our feet are physical and mental. We bundle them up in socks and shoes and are surprised when don’t thrive and develop problems. We think about our feet but don't fully and vibrantly feel them and embrace them as an integral part of ourselves. They are often an after thought. And of course we can do very well without them, but if we are lucky enough to have them, then they are part of our whole. Yoga is a wonderful chance to set the feet free and invite them to do what they do best - support us unencumbered and fully integrated. I know some like to wear socks to yoga, and there are many reasons why this can be a good idea, skin conditions etc. Yet bare feet has a vibrancy to it. Feet are designed to feel texture and temperature, to spread out and connect to the ground, and to be responsive to all that they encounter. My teacher used to joke that doing yoga in socks was a bit like taking a shower with your pants on. Fine, but not quite as effective and refreshing :-) My feet were the butt of many a joke when I was a kid. They are short and wide, with toes the same length - not really optimum. But we all have what we’ve got, and we make the best of it. The orthotics I was prescribed didn’t help and were uncomfortable. The orthopaedic surgeon suggested breaking a bone or two and resetting my foot at a better angle (no thank you). But actually, the thing that made the difference in the end was barefoot yoga. Using my feet unconstrained and given them the chance to do what they were designed to do. I’m sure yoga is also why I didn’t get the predicted bunions until my 50s. And now a couple of compensatory exercises help keep my feet pain-free. We are working with Tree Pose in my classes this term which is a very feet-centred pose. It has has something to offer everyone, no matter how steady or wobbly your balance is at the moment and there are many stages to the pose to support and develop stability. Being foot-centred doesn’t mean we need to ‘do’ anything extra with the feet intentionally. Gripping or bracing the foot may even be counterproductive. Let the feet relax. Feel your feet from within, rather than thinking about them from your head down. Invite them to connect to the sensations of the ground pressing in to them, and feel them spread out rather than grip in. Enter the initial stages of the pose with a sense of curiosity, shifting our weight over, whether or not balance is available. The foot over time will figure out what to do. To wake up and do what it is designed for, without the shoes and socks. Invite rather than ‘will’ the foot to support the pose and openly notice what happens. Do you tense up? In the foot? In your neck? Are you holding your breath? All these habits that show up in our practice are often helpful to notice and explore further. It is true, practice will help our balance. Just like when we were toddlers, and it took practice to balance on two feet. If your new to balancing or find it hard or intimidating, consider yourself the toddler that will figure it out given the opportunity. Practice standing more on one foot than the other daily with bare feet and notice the change that happens. If your more experienced and enjoy the challenge of feeling rooted and extended at the same time, experiment at the different heights available in Tree Pose as they all offer different explorations. And any frustration you find in your balance is simply an optional extra that we can choose not to invite along. |
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